If you want to play with me as a friend, lover, or learning partner, following these instructions will convince you otherwise. If you complete them all, then you will be much better prepared1 and if/when you say you are ready/willing to play with me, I may believe you.

  1. Do the reading2 (which at the very least should include The Disappearance of the Universe and Radical Honesty, although for most people I recommend starting with Loving What Is).
  2. Read all my blog posts (or at least the affirming ones).

If none of that changed your mind, then tell me:

  1. That you’ve read The Disappearance of the Universe, Radical Honesty and all 14 of my affirming blog posts.
  2. You want to hear the truth.
  3. That you agree to my boundaries.
  4. Your ‘favourite’ forms of unkindness/disrespect (i.e. the ones you notice yourself doing most often).

For those who think they know anything For those who feel unworthy
My time and attention is very precious; do not waste it.3 Come my friend; let me show you otherwise.
  1. I am a dragon - if you pursue me without preparation, you will be burned 

  2. If you cannot afford a book on the reading list then you can ask me to buy you a copy 

  3. Your time and attention is also precious, but you don’t realise this and so you squander it on the valueless. 

Forgive, and you will see this differently.